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		<title>The Religious, Historical, and Cultural Development of Islamic Calligraphy</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[Islamic calligraphy isn’t just a gorgeous style of art, but a symbol for how rich and diverse the Islamic world truly is For all of the artistic forms the Islamic world has produced, calligraphy seems to be the most pre-eminent. It is entwined in the popular consciousness with Islam itself; mosques around the world proudly [&#8230;]]]></description>
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<p>Islamic calligraphy isn’t just a gorgeous style of art, but a symbol for how rich and diverse the Islamic world truly is</p>
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<p>For all of the artistic forms the Islamic world has produced, calligraphy seems to be the most pre-eminent. It is entwined in the popular consciousness with Islam itself; mosques around the world proudly display the <em>shahada</em> and the <em>bismillah</em>, and these are featured – in calligraphic script – on the flags of many Muslim countries. Calligraphy has travelled across the Muslim world, transliterating many languages and morphing into many different schools of styles; it has even influenced Western styles of illustrated books and penmanship. This article does not focus on calligraphy entirely, but rather will show how the religious, historical, and cultural backgrounds of the different Islamic cultures informed the development of calligraphy – from the way the Qur&#8217;an and the <em>Sunnah</em> view art, to the history of the Arabic script and its transmission, to the way calligraphy travelled around the Middle East, and finally to how the actual production of calligraphy and the training of calligraphers influences its style.</p>
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<p>Essentially, the ubiquity of calligraphy in the Islamic visual arts can be traced to the fundamental religious concepts of <em>shirk</em> – that it is forbidden to associate any other entity with Allah, thus risking <em>tawhid</em>, or the “oneness of God.” These other entities can be anything – from the “little gods” (<em>ilah</em>) of greed, capriciousness, and atheism, to the polytheistic deities displaced by Islam at its birth – but for the purposes of this essay, <em>shirk</em> is synonymous with idolatry. To humans, God cannot be comprehended with our own senses or mentality; it is only possible to see the results of His work on Earth and infer His qualities from that. Since God is fundamentally beyond the scope of the human, any attempt to reduce Him to a visual representation is heretical. Idols and icons of God detract from <em>tawhid</em> – that is, it places an intermediate entity between the worshipper and God – and “nothing must stand between man and the invisible presence of God” (Burckhardt, 1976 : p.34).</p>
<p>Within the Qur&#8217;an itself, there are many verses dealing with proscriptions in producing images of the divine – in particular, the story of Abraham destroying the idols in 20:52-7. As well as this, many <em>hadith</em> tell of the Prophet Muhammad&#8217;s disapproval of not only the makers of religious idols, but any visual depiction of animate beings like humans and animals. This again is to do with <em>shirk</em> – humans acting with arrogance and equating their creations with the creations and creatures of God.</p>
<p>Artists were encouraged to draw plants, landscapes, and abstract pictures instead. Historically, this prohibition against animate figures can explain the flowering of abstract design, calligraphy included, across the Islamic world; it also shows why mosques and other Islamic religious centres lack the anthropocentric art that is usual in their Christian counterparts (e.g., Jesus&#8217; crucifixion, icons of the saints, etc.). Visual depictions of humans and animals do exist in the Muslim world on a smaller scale – murals and frescoes were painted in liberal enclaves like al-Andalus and &#8216;Abbasid Baghdad, and both Persia and Turkey have supported robust traditions of miniature painting and illustrated books since the 13<sup>th</sup> century (Eastman, 1933 : p.22-3). However, the common theme underlying all these works is that they were usually small and for private viewing only; murals were not found outside the palace walls, and illustrated books and paintings were hobbies for nobles, and not for mass consumption. Calligraphy, with its abstract, non-representational style, and the general veneration of language and writing in Islamic culture, became the dominant art form within the Muslim world.</p>
<p>To adequately explain the first appearance of Islamic calligraphy, two distinct questions should be asked – what sort of script did the first Muslims write in, and where did it come from? And what is the history of the written, illustrated Qur&#8217;an that actually used calligraphy?</p>
<p>Answering the former question, Arabic script evolved from Nabatean, which in turn came from a script termed Proto-Sinaitic. Only a few examples of Proto-Sinaitic have been found, all dated to c.1900 BCE (Man, 2000 : p.189), but it is postulated that Proto-Sinaitic was one of the first alphabetical scripts developed (rather than ideographic or “symbolic” scripts, like Chinese). Since the actual spoken languages across the region all belonged (and for the most part still belong) to the Semitic language family, it was relatively easy for one script to be adapted to many languages; an archaic form of the Arabic script was known to the first Muslims, even if they were for the most part illiterate. The production of copies of the Qur&#8217;an was the first step to greater literacy in the Muslim community (the <em>umma</em>).</p>
<p>The first Qur&#8217;ans that still survive today were written in a thick, angular, straight style called Kufic, after the city of Kufa in modern day Iraq, a center for book production; most date to the 8<sup>th</sup> or 9<sup>th</sup> centuries. According to tradition, it was &#8216;Uthman&#8217;s successor, Ali, who first used and popularised this style over others (Schimmel, 1984 : p.3-4). Kufic was not cursive like modern Arabic script is; rather, five-sixths of letters were supposed to be straight against one-sixth of curved. This meant that the angular, thick lines of Kufic were very easy to chisel into metal or stone – the first Islamic coins and tombstones feature inscriptions written in Kufic (Schimmel, 1992 : p.4-7). A slanted subset of Kufic appeared around the same time, in copies of the Qur&#8217;an found in and traced back to the cities of Mecca and Medina. This style, called <em>Ma&#8217;il</em>, did not seem as popular as Kufic, but represented the first step towards the more recognisable cursive classical calligraphy. As Islam spread across the Middle East, different varieties of cursive script developed. This development was helped by the spread of sophisticated paper-making technology. Though paper had been known of and used since the start of the &#8216;Abbasid Caliphate in 751 (Coomaraswamy, 1929 : p.50), more durable vellum had been used to create Qur&#8217;ans up until the 10<sup>th</sup> century. However, with the importation of high-quality Chinese paper, and the creation of royal paper mills in Baghdad, cursive styles began to appear in both the Qur&#8217;an and in official documents of the era; the first wholly paper book can be dated back to 870 (Schimmel, 1984 : p.16). The differences between each style of writing were studied and placed into groups: the “six cursive scripts” or <em>al-aqlam al-sittah</em>, as conflated by the master calligrapher and &#8216;Abbasid vizier, Ibn Muqla (885-940). These six groups were:</p>
<ol>
<li><em> Nashk</em> – everyday script; the precursor to the modern Arabic used worldwide. It is the most basic cursive hand; at first it was not used much to write Qur&#8217;ans or important state documents, but for everyday writing purposes. However, after the 15<sup>th</sup> century, <em>nashki</em> underwent a “renaissance” and it appeared in many books across the Islamic world (Schimmel, 1970 : pl.IX).</li>
<li><em> Thuluth</em> – “one-third” (named after the angle of the slant of its letters); the most common decorative script used in Islamic cultures. Ibn Muqla called it “the mother of the cursive scripts.” <em>Thuluth </em>is more extravagant than <em>Nashki</em> writing, with long, flowing lines and elegant curves, and it was often used in medieval times to decorate the veneers of buildings (Coomaraswamy, 1929 : 54).</li>
<li><em> Muhaqqaq</em> – a script derived from <em>thuluth</em> and used by the Mamluk sultans of Egypt in the 13<sup>th</sup> century, and Safavid Persia in the 15<sup>th</sup> century; most of the sultan&#8217;s royal documents were written in this hand. It was considered to be drier than <em>thuluth</em>, with pointed letter endings and very high “tall” letters (Schimmel, 1992 : p.16).</li>
<li><em> Rihan</em> – a less-extravagant version of <em>muhaqqaq</em>; it is distinguishable from <em>thuluth</em> by the pointed ends of its letters. After Ibn Muqla&#8217;s time, <em>rihani</em> writing fell out of favour and is not very well attested (Tabbaa, 1991 : p.122).</li>
<li><em> Tawqi&#8217;</em> – the official hand used by the &#8216;Abbasid caliphate under Yaqut al-Musta&#8217;simi, the successor of Ibn Muqla. The letters in <em>tawqi&#8217;</em> are straighter than in other varieties, though it is still very much a decorative style, rather than an everyday one; it was mainly used to write out court documents and royal decrees (Schimmel, 1970 : p.7)</li>
<li><em> Riqa&#8217;</em> – a more informal, less “monumental” version of <em>tawqi&#8217;</em>, <em>riqa&#8217;</em> is still used today as a secondary writing style. Like <em>tawqi&#8217;</em>, it flattens out elongated curves and high letters for ease of writing; it is known as the “copyist&#8217;s hand” (Shimmel, 1984 : p.23-4).</li>
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<p>As well as these definitive styles that were used across the Islamic world, there existed regional variations that were used by specific cultures. The most well-known of these include:</p>
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<li><em> Maghribi</em>, which arose in North Africa sometime in the 14<sup>th</sup> century, and owed more of its stylistic origins to Kufic than the cursive scripts; thick lines and tall, straight letters were emphasised (Schimmel, 1992 : p.32-3).</li>
<li><em> Ta&#8217;liq</em> or “hanging,” that was used – from the time of its conquest – to write exclusively in the Persian language. It evolved into <em>Nasta&#8217;liq </em>in the 15<sup>th</sup> century; <em>Nasta&#8217;liq</em> separated the letters far more than other styles did, and often wrote them on differing levels for artistic effect (Schimmel, 1992 : p.34-7). It was the preferred script for writing poems and for accompanying miniature paintings.</li>
<li><em> Diwani</em> – the extremely elaborate calligraphy of the Ottoman Empire; it first appeared around the time of Suleiman in the 16<sup>th</sup> century; Suleiman was apparently a master calligrapher himself. <em>Diwani </em>is extremely complex and difficult to learn – its rules were only taught to a select few, but exponents of the art could create images out of calligraphy (Coomaraswamy, 1929 : 58).</li>
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<p>The basic method of production for all of these hands is essentially the same – the calligrapher uses a reed stylus/pen called a <em>qalam</em>, a supply of ink (<em>hibr</em>), and usually an inkpot as well (<em>dawaat</em>)<em>.</em> The ink was collected from “lampblack”; that is, the remnants of oil found in burnt oil-lamps, though other methods existed, like burning tar or pitch (Schimmel, 1984 : p.40). At first, in the early days of Islam&#8217;s expansion, only black or brown ink was used; however, it is common to find manuscripts in which a later scribe has gone over their predecessors’ work with coloured inks, especially since not all the early Qur&#8217;ans used the same spelling. By the turn of the millennium, though, calligraphers could choose to write in many different dyes and inks, and color their books with such luxuries as lapis lazuli and gold leaf (Schimmel, 1970 : pl.XXII). The form of the calligraphy was also dictated by the material the words were written on; because only parchment was used to create the earliest books, cursive scripts would be too hard to write effectively on them.</p>
<p>The invention of paper directly led to the explosion of cursive styles. To prepare the paper for calligraphy, the artist had to first apply <em>ahar</em>, a conditioning mixture that consisted of rice powder, egg white, and starch, to make the paper smooth. Any further unevenness was smoothed out by a stone, traditionally an agate. Once the page was complete, sand was thrown over it, both to soak up the excess ink and as a blessing (Schimmel, 1984 : p.41-2).</p>
<p>The actual training of a professional calligrapher (<em>khattat</em>) was another matter entirely; though most Muslims of education knew how to write the basics of the <em>nashki</em> or <em>riqa&#8217;</em> styles, the future <em>khattat</em> must seek the patronage of a master teacher (<em>sheik</em>). This idea of seeking guidance through a teacher comes directly from the influence of Sufism –  in fact, almost all master calligraphers were Sufis as well. Students had to train constantly, using a <em>mashq</em> (practice slate); on a given day, they would study only the permutations of one letter, though of course the style of training varied from teacher to teacher (Schimmel, 1984 : p.48). Most commonly the rules of form laid down by Ibn Muqla were the most studied. If the students were successful enough in their endeavors, the teacher would award them an <em>ijaza</em> (lit.,  “permission”), a certificate that showed that their <em>sheik</em> considered them adept enough to be a <em>khattat</em>. These <em>ijaza</em> were vital in showing the different lineages of styles across the Islamic world. One final, surprising feature of the calligraphers and their students was that so many of them were women – calligraphy was seen as a pious career for both sexes; many Ottoman princesses were considered master calligraphers in their own right (Schimmel, 1970 : 47).</p>
<p>In conclusion, Islamic calligraphy inherently shows the growth and development of Islam itself, through its aniconic styles of art, to the growth in usage of the Arabic script, and to the blossoming of distinct local variants of Islamic culture. Through all this, it is possible to trace the respect and awe Muslims held for writing, and calligraphy in particular, linking it with the heart of religion. An old Arabic saying puts it best by saying, “Purity of writing is the purity of the soul” (Schimmel, 1992 : p.1).</p>
<h3>References</h3>
<ul>
<li>Burckhardt, Titus (1976) <em>Art of Islam: Language and Meaning</em>, trans. French by Peter Hobson, London : Islamic Festival Trust.</li>
<li>Al-Bukhari, Muhammad ibn Ismail (c.846) <em>Sahih al-Bukhari</em>, trans. Arabic by Muhammed Muhsin Khan, University of California (database) <a href="http://www.usc.edu/schools/college/crcc/engagement/resources/texts/muslim/hadith/bukhari/">http://www.usc.edu/schools/college/crcc/engagement/resources/texts/muslim/hadith/bukhari/</a></li>
<li>Eastman, Alvan C. (1933) Islamic Miniature Painting, <em>Parnassus</em>, vol.5 no.7, New York : College Art Association.</li>
<li>Gruber, Christiane (2009) Representations of the Prophet Muhammad in Islamic painting, <em>Muqarnas</em>,  Necipoglu, Gulru &amp; Leal, Karen (eds.), vol.26, Cambridge : Harvard University Press.</li>
<li>Man, John (2000) <em>Alphabeta</em>, London : Random House.</li>
<li>O&#8217;Connor, M. (1986) The Arabic Loanwords in Nabatean Aramaic, Journal of Near Eastern Studies, vol.45 no.3, Chicago : Chicago University Press.</li>
<li>Denny, Frederick Mathewson (1989) Qur&#8217;an Recitation: A Tradition of Oral Performance and Transmission, <em>Oral Tradition</em> <a href="http://journal.oraltradition.org/files/articles/4i-ii/2_Denny.pdf">http://journal.oraltradition.org/files/articles/4i-ii/2_Denny.pdf</a></li>
<li>Akram, A.I. (1970) <em>The Sword of Allah: Khalid bin al-Waleed, His Life and Campaigns</em>, Rawalpindi : National Publishing House (database)</li>
<li><a href="http://web.archive.org/web/20020224232028/http:/www.swordofallah.com/html/bookhome.htm">http://web.archive.org/web/20020224232028/http://www.swordofallah.com/html/bookhome.htm</a></li>
<li>Schimmel, Annemarie (1984) <em>Calligraphy and Islamic Culture</em>, New York : New York University Press.</li>
<li>Schimmel, Annemarie (1992) <em>Islamic Calligraphy</em>, London : Metropolitan Museum of Art.</li>
<li>Coomaraswamy,Ananda (1929) Arabic and Turkish Calligraphy, <em>Bulletin of the Museum of Fine Arts</em>, vol.27 no.162, Boston : Museum of Fine Arts.</li>
<li>Schimmel, Annemarie (1970) <em>Islamic Calligraphy</em>, Leiden : E.J. Brill.</li>
<li>Tabbaa, Yasser (1991) The Transformation of Arabic Writing: Part I, Qur&#8217;anic Calligraphy, <em>Ars Orientalis</em>, vol.21, Michigan : Smithsonian Institution and Department of the History of Art.</li>
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										<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Parenting is a most challenging yet rewarding experience. Baumrind, who studied parenting styles during the early 1960s, concluded that they differ in four important areas: parents&#8217; warmth/nurturance, discipline strategy, communication skills, and expectations of maturity. She posited three types of parenting styles: authoritarian, permissive, and authoritative (Berger 2001). Parents are the major influence in their children&#8217;s lives. Thus their perception of how children think, and should be raised is crucial in determining children&#8217;s behavior. Other factors, such as genes, peers, culture, gender, and financial status, are of lesser importance. Studies reveal a correlation between parenting styles and school competence, delinquency, violence, sexual activity, antisocial behavior, alcohol and substance abuse, depression, anxiety, and self-perception.</p>
<h3><b>Authoritarian Parents</b></h3>
<p>Authoritarian parenting, also termed dictatorial or harsh, is low on warmth/nurturance, strict on discipline, high in parent-to-child communication but low in child-to-parent communication, and high on expectation. This style has been predominant throughout Western history: &#8220;It was effective in status quo times, for example in agrarian-industrial societies&#8221; (Dinwiddie 1995).</p>
<p>Authoritarian parents show little affection and &#8220;seem aloof from their children&#8221; (Berger 2001, 283). Parents instruct and order, do not consider the children&#8217;s opinion as a group, and discourage verbal give-and-take (Gonzalez-Mena 1993). Obedience, respect, and tradition are highly valued. Rules are non-nogoliable, parents are always right, and disobedient children are punished-often physically. However, parents &#8220;do not cross the line to physical abuse&#8221; (Berger 2001, 283). As children obey their parents in order to avoid punishment, they become passive. Authoritarian parents also expect a level of maturity higher than the norm for their child&#8217;s particular age group: &#8220;The authoritarian parents assign the child the same responsibilities as adults&#8221; (Scarr, Weinberg, and Levine 1986, 306). Responsiveness is low, as the approach is parent-centered and stresses the parent&#8217;s needs.</p>
<p>This almost noninteractive style has serious developmental drawbacks (Daniel, Wassell, and Gilligan 1999). Children are more susceptible to antisocial peer pressure during adolescence, a time when peer influence is the greatest (Collins et al. 2000); learn not to discuss issues with their parents (why bother if you are always wrong or ignored?); and are influenced greatly by their peers. Often frustrated, they distance themselves from their parents by rebelling against the latter&#8217;s values and beliefs.</p>
<p>Steinberg et al. (1994) reveals that boys in this category have the highest level of violence. Steinberg (1996) shows that these teenagers are less self-reliant, persistent, and socially poised, and have lower self-esteem. In addition, there is a strong inverse correlation between such authoritarianism and good grades. Other research indicates that they lack social competence and rarely initiate activities: &#8220;They show less intellectual curiosity, are not spontaneous and usually rely on the voice of authority&#8221; (Parenting n.d.).</p>
<h3><b>Permissive Parents</b></h3>
<p>Permissive parenting, also labeled as neglectful or disengaged parenting, is high on warmth, very low on discipline and structure, low in parent-to-child communication but high in child-to-parent communication, and low on expectation. This style was popular in the 1950s and 1960s. The fact that many German children and adults had followed Hitler led people to attribute this to Germany&#8217;s authoritarian home environment, which demanded unquestioning obedience. Thus their parents &#8220;conditioned&#8221; them for Hitler. (Dinwiddie 1995). Hoping to counteract such undesirable side-effects, they became permissive.</p>
<p>Permissive parents are nurturing, warm, and accepting. Their main concerns are to let children express their creativity and individuality and to make them happy (Neal 2000), in the belief that this will teach them right from wrong (Berger 2001). Permissive parents find it hard to set clear limits, provide structure, are inconsistent disciplinarians (Huxley 1998), and reward bad behavior regularly (Dworkin 1997). Children are not pushed to obey guidelines or standards that, even when they do exist, are not enforced (Barakat and Clark 1999).</p>
<p>Permissive parents take orders and instructions from their children, are passive, endow children with power (Gonzalez-Mena 1993; Garbarino and Abramowitz 1992), have low expectations, use minimal discipline, and do not feel responsible for how their children turn out.</p>
<p>Ironically, these children turn out to be the unhappiest of all (Neal 2000). They are more likely to exhibit such psychological problems as anxiety and depression (Steinberg 1996), are the second group (after authoritarian) most likely to commit violence (Steinberg et al. 1994), and engage in antisocial behavior (Simons, Lin, and Gordon 1998). Research links permissive parents with delinquency, substance abuse, and sexual activity (Snyder and Sickmund 2000; Jacobson and Crockett 2000].</p>
<p>In effect, parents teach their children that they can get their way by manipulating others: &#8220;Children learn a false sense of control over adults that increases their manipulative behavior&#8221; (Huxley 1998). Later on, they do poorly in school, have higher rates of misbehavior in areas involving adult authority, and &#8220;may also grow up manipulating around rules because those are not firm&#8221; (Thinking n.d.).</p>
<p>As they have not been taught how to control or discipline themselves, they are less likely to develop self-respect. This lack of discipline and structure engenders a desire for some type of control, and so they put &#8220;a lot of energy into controlling parents and trying to get parents to control them&#8221; (Gonzalez-Mena 1993, 157).</p>
<p>Their unmet psychological needs make them &#8220;vulnerable to being easily discouraged by everyday problems and turns the child away from full and satisfying participation in the world&#8221; (Garbarino and Abramowilz 1992, 42). This, in turn, hinders their social development, self-esteem, and positive self-concept. Without high expectations to realize, &#8220;children of permissive parents generally have difficulty controlling their impulses, are immature, and reluctant to accept responsibility&#8221; (Parenting n.d.).</p>
<p>Steinberg (1996) shows a strong correlation between permissive parenting and poor grades in families where parents are not involved in their children&#8217;s education and do not initiate a give-and-take relationship with their children. Other negative outcomes are sleep disturbances (Dworkin 1997) and feelings of insecurity.</p>
<h3><b>Authoritative Parents</b></h3>
<p>Authoritative parenting is high on warmth, moderate on discipline, high in communication, and moderate in expectations of maturity. This style is becoming more pervasive in the West. Authoritative parents are warm and nurturing, create a loving home environment, and provide a high degree of emotional support (Ingersoll 1989). Unlike permissive parents, they are firm, consistent, and fair (Barakat and Clark 1999).</p>
<p>Authoritative parents discipline through rational and issue-oriented strategies in order to promote their children&#8217;s autonomy while ensuring conformity to group standards (Marion 1999). They establish and enforce behavior standards (Glasgow et al. 1997) and stay in control. &#8220;Family rule is democratic [rather] than dictatorial&#8221; (Berger 2001, 283). Parents use reason, negotiation, and persuasion-not force-to gain their children&#8217;s cooperation (Marion 1999). Their listening-demanding ratio is roughly equal.</p>
<p>Children are given alternatives, encouraged to decide, and accept responsibility for their actions and decisions. The end result is self-empowerment (Barakat arid Clark 1999). When the children&#8217;s opinions are valued and respected, both children and parents benefit (Marion 1999; Gonzalez-Mena 1993).</p>
<p>Authoritative parents set developmentally appropriate limits and</p>
<p>standards for behavior. They make it clear that they will help their children. If their demands are not met, they are forgiving and understanding rather than punitive (Glasgow et al. 1997; Berger 2000). Overall, this parenting style is high on mutual understanding and based on reciprocity.</p>
<p>In fact, both parties benefit. Developmental opportunities are provided for children, as the quality of interaction and nurturance is high and expectations are realistic (Garbarino and Abramowilz 1992). In addition, such parents are more likely to encourage academic success (Glasgow et al. 1997), which has a positive correlation with good grades (Steinberg, 1996). This can be attributed to parental involvement in their children&#8217;s education and their use of open, give-and-take communication through family reading, writing, and discussions.</p>
<p>Research also shows that these children are less influenced by negative pefir pressure and develop successful peer relationships (Collins et al. 2000). As authoritative parenting provides a balance between control and independence, il produces competent, socially responsible, self-assured, and independent children (Gonzalez-Mena 1993). Children are more likely to develop high self-esteem, positive self-concept, greater self-worth, less rebellion, and generally are more successful in life.</p>
<p>Furthermore, they are the best adjusted of all children. According to Thinking (n.d), they ranked highest in self-respect, capacity to conform to authority, and greater interest in the parents&#8217; faith in God. They also respect authority, are accountable, and control their impulses. Steinberg (1996) shows that they are more confident and responsible, less likely to use or abuse drugs or alcohol, and less likely to be involved in delinquency. These children also reported less anxiety and depression and the least amount of violence (Steinberg et al. 1994).</p>
<h3><b>Conclusion</b></h3>
<p>Western culture places great importance on planning for children and their upbringing. Hence, parents-to-be spend a great deal of time thinking about everything-from which brand of diapers to use to which college they want their child to attend. However, less importance is given to parenting style. Research has proven repeatedly that parenting styles have a &#8220;direct correlation with how children will grow up, how they live and whether they will abide by the rules in society&#8221; (Thinking n.d.). Therefore parents-to-be must analyze different parenting styles, their effects, and what works best for them and their child.</p>
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